It is not my advice alone. It is the main theme of George Washington's Farewell address. A divisive truth teller is allowed. You might just be one of those people who cannot tell the difference between the two.
Here is GW's own words introducing the content of his Farewell Address and put in simpler English. You should read more.
https://x.com/BobThibadeau/status/1875877137015603529
But my nearly identical conclusion is based on the computational cognitive science of how the human brain works.
https://medium.com/liecatcher/100-billion-sources-of-hate-between-your-ears-d34baf503c98